Mellow Toddlers

Mellow Toddlers (formerly Mellow Parenting) is a group-based intervention for families where there are concerns about the safety and wellbeing of a child between 0 and 5 years old. It is delivered by two family support workers to groups of up to six parents through 14 weekly sessions lasting five hours each. Prior to these sessions, parents are videotaped interacting with their child in their homes. The videotapes then inform the basis of the content of future sessions.

The information above is as offered/supported by the intervention provider.

Population characteristics as evaluated

1 to 3 years old

Level of need: Targeted-indicated
Race and ethnicities: Not reported

Model characteristics

Group

Setting: Home, Children’s Centre, Early years setting.
Workforce: Family support worker, Health visitor, Early years practitioner.
Evidence rating:
Cost rating:

Child outcomes:

  • Preventing crime, violence and antisocial behaviour
    • Improved behaviour

UK available

UK tested

Published: April 2025
Last reviewed: July 2016

Model description

Mellow Toddlers (formerly Mellow parenting) is a group-based intervention for families where there are concerns about the safety and wellbeing of a child between 0 and 5 years old.

It is delivered by two family support workers to groups of up to six parents through 14 weekly sessions lasting five hours each. The intervention can be delivered to mothers and fathers, although they attend ‘mothers only’ and ‘fathers only’ groups separately.

Parents are visited in their home twice before the start of the intervention. During the first visit, the Mellow Toddler’s goals are explained and discussed within the context of the parents’ circumstances.

During the second visit, the practitioner videotapes the parent and child interacting in situations that may be difficult for them – such as mealtimes and bedtimes. The practitioner and parent then choose two positive and two negative examples of the parent and child’s interaction to share with the group throughout the course of the intervention.

The group sessions include the following components:

  • In the morning session, parents participate in group discussions where they explore how their personal histories with their own parents are impacting their current relationship with their children. The session included the use of warm-up activities, worksheets (read aloud in case of reading difficulties) and structured discussion. A creche is available for children.
  • During the lunch session, parents receive coaching on how to interact with their children and engage in joint activities and singing games.
  • In the afternoon session, the practitioners lead a group discussion of videotapes of the parents interacting with their children. Parents are encouraged to identify ‘things that went well’ and ‘things that did not turn out the way you wanted them to’, with practitioners identifying and praising positive parenting strategies. Where mothers share difficult interactions with their children, practitioners put in place strategies to prevent these happening again.
  • At the end of the session, ‘have a go’ activities are given to encourage parents to apply what they have learned at home; these are followed up in the next week’s session. In the early weeks, these are set on a group basis, while in later sessions group members set their own targets.
  • Parents also receive signposting to other services as required and follow-up sessions are provided as needed.

The sessions provide opportunities for therapeutic work with parents (individually and through group work); direct work on interaction between parents and children; methods to address antecedent and concurrent family risk factors; and direct techniques to change dysfunctional patterns of parent–child interaction. Parent learning is supported through the feedback provided to the videotapes and the ‘have a go!’ homework assignments

Age of child

2 to 5 years old

Target population

Families with a child under 5 years facing multiple challenges, including parenting difficulties or relationship problems, child protection issues, family violence, or at least two of the following: child behaviour problems, maternal mental health problems, and difficulties with current or past family relationships.

Disclaimer: The information in this section is as offered/supported by the intervention provider.

Why?

Science-based assumption

Attachment security lays the foundation for children to develop positive expectations of themselves and others

Attachment security is thought to reduce the risk of mental health problems as children develop.

Science-based assumption

Sensitive parent–child interactions increase the likelihood of children developing secure attachment relationships

Sensitive parenting is supported by their ability to form positive representations of their child.

Who?

Science-based assumption

A parent’s attachment history can negatively impact their representations of their child

Negative representations of the child increase the risk of child maltreatment.

How?

Intervention

Parents receive intensive therapeutic support for their attachment history

Parents are supported to form positive representation of themselves and their child

Parents are coached to respond sensitively to their child’s needs.

What?

Short-term

Parents develop positive representations of their child

Parents are less likely to have negative representations of their child

Parent become more sensitive to their child’s needs.

Medium-term

Improved parent–infant interaction

Reduced risk of the child developing an insecure attachment.

Long-term

Children develop positive expectations of themselves and others

Children are at less risk of future mental health problems

Children are at less risk of child maltreatment.

Who is eligible?

Families where there are identified parenting difficulties or relationship problems, including child protection issues, family violence, or at least two of the following: child behaviour problems, maternal mental health problems, and difficulties with current or past family relationships.

How is it delivered?

Mellow Toddlers is delivered in 14 weekly sessions of five hours’ duration each by two practitioners, to groups of six families.

What happens during the intervention?

In the morning session, mothers participate in group discussions where they explore how their personal histories with their own parents are impacting their current relationship with their children.

During the lunch session, mothers receive coaching on how to interact with their children and engage in joint activities and singing games.

In the afternoon session, the practitioners lead a group discussion of videotapes of the mothers interacting with their children.

At the end of the session, ‘have a go’ activities are given to encourage parents to apply what they have learned at home; these are followed up in the next week’s session.

Who can deliver it?

The practitioner who delivers this intervention is a family support worker, early years practitioner or health visitor.

What are the training requirements?

The practitioners have 21 hours of intervention training. Booster training of practitioners is recommended.

How are the practitioners supervised?

It is recommended that practitioners are supervised by two host-agency supervisors.

What are the systems for maintaining fidelity?

Intervention fidelity is maintained by:

  • Supervision process.

Is there a licensing requirement?

No

Contact details*

Organisation: Mellow Parenting

Email address: enquiries@mellowparenting.org

Website: www.mellowparenting.org

*Please note that this information may not be up to date. In this case, please visit the listed intervention website for up to date contact details.

Mellow Toddler’s most rigorous evidence comes from a comparison group study conducted in the UK consistent with Foundations’ Level 2 evidence strength criteria.

The study observed statistically significant improvements in Mellow Toddler mothers’ reports of their child’s behaviour one year following the intervention in comparison to mothers not participating in the intervention. Researchers also observed Mellow Toddler mothers to behave more sensitively and co-operatively towards their child one year following the intervention in comparison to mothers not participating in the intervention. Additionally, Mellow Toddler mothers were significantly more likely to report an improved mental state post-intervention in comparison to mothers in the comparison group.

Mellow Toddlers has preliminary evidence of improving a child outcome, but we cannot be confident that the intervention caused the improvement.

Search and review

Identified in search3
Studies reviewed2
Meeting the L2 threshold1
Meeting the L3 threshold0
Contributing to the L4 threshold0
Ineligible1

Study 1

Study designQED
CountryUK
Sample characteristics

98 families accessing seven family or community centres in Scotland, with a child 0 to 5 years old, where there are identified parenting difficulties or relationship problems, including child protection issues, family violence, or at least two of the following: child behaviour problems, maternal mental health problems, and difficulties with current or past family relationships.

Race, ethnicities, and nationalities

Not reported

Population risk factors

N/A

Timing
  • Baseline
  • Post-test
  • One-year follow-up.
Child outcomes

Improved behaviour

Other outcomes
  • Improved parent–child interaction
  • Improved maternal mental state.
Study rating2
Citations

Study 1a: Puckering, C., Mills, M., Cox, A. D., Maddox, H. & Evans, J. (1999) Improving the quality of family support; Mellow Parenting: An intensive intervention. Final report. Department of Health.

Study 1b: Allely, C. S., Puckering, C., Mills, M., Cox, A. D., Evans, J. & Maddox, H. (2014) The impact of the Mellow parenting programme on later measures of childhood verbal IQ. Educational and Child Psychology. 31, 28–37.

The following studies were identified for this intervention but did not count towards the intervention’s overall evidence rating. An intervention receives the same rating as its most robust study or studies.

Macbeth, A., Law, J., McGowan, I., Norrie, J., Thompsons, L. & Wilson, P. (2015) Mellow Parenting: Systematic review and meta-analysis of an intervention to promote sensitive parenting. Developmental Medicine and Child Neurology. 57 (12), 1119–28.

Puckering, C., Rogers, J., Mills, M., Cox, A. D. & Mattsson-Graff, M. (1994) Process and evaluation of a group intervention for mothers with parenting difficulties. Child Abuse Review. 3, 299–310.

Note on provider involvement: This provider has agreed to Foundations’ terms of reference (or the Early Intervention Foundation's terms of reference), and the assessment has been conducted and published with the full cooperation of the intervention provider.

Cost ratings:

Rated 1: Set up and delivery is low cost, equivalent to an estimated unit cost of less than £100.

Rated 2: Set up and delivery is medium-low cost, equivalent to an estimated unit cost of £100–£499.

Rated 3: Set up and delivery is medium cost, equivalent to an estimated unit cost of £500–£999.

Rated 4: Set up and delivery is medium-high cost, equivalent to an estimated unit cost of £1,000–£2,000.

Rating 5: Set up and delivery is high cost. Equivalent to an estimated unit cost of more than £2,000.

Set up and delivery cost is not applicable, not available, or has not been calculated.

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Child Outcomes:

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Evidence ratings:

Rated 2: Has preliminary evidence of improving a child outcome from a quantitative impact study, but there is not yet evidence of causal impact.

Rated 2+: Meets the level 2 rating and the best available evidence is based on a study which is more rigorous than a level 2 standard but does not meet the level 3 standard.

Rated 3: Has evidence of a short-term positive impact from at least one rigorous study.

Rated 3+: Meets the level 3 rating and has evidence from other studies with a comparison group at level 2 or higher.

Rated 4: Has evidence of a long-term positive impact through at least two rigorous studies.

Rated 4+: Meets the level 4 rating and has at least a third study contributing to the Level 4 rating, with at least one of the studies conducted independently of the intervention provider.

Rating has a *: The evidence base includes mixed findings i.e., studies suggesting positive impact alongside studies, which on balance, indicate no effect or negative impact.

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